What you can't name is running the show. My work makes it visible. And shifts it.
Jilles van Gastel is a systemic facilitator working across borders, cultures, and inherited histories.
My WorkWhen hard work, analysis, and proven approaches have reached their limits, systemic energetic work creates the shift — in you, in your system, and in the patterns you carry.
More peace. More clarity. More room to move.
Where to start? Three paths for you.
A private online session for anyone who feels stuck, repeating the same pattern, or experiencing a problem that doesn't go away whatever they try.
People come with many different questions or intentions. Recurring difficulties in relationships, with a partner or family members. Blocks around money or career that won't shift whatever they try. Emotions, fears, or a heaviness that seem to have no clear origin, or that feel much larger than the moment calls for.
One session, between 60 and 90 minutes, is often enough to create movement on a specific issue. For those who want to go deeper, coaching trajectories are available.
Many clients leave feeling lighter, clearer, and ready to move.
For leadership teams and business owners dealing with organizational issues that keep returning despite genuine effort.
Organizations come with different questions. Tension between teams or departments that won't resolve. A leader who can't fully step into their role. Decisions that keep getting postponed. Patterns of behavior the organization wants to leave behind. And strategic questions that need clarity before taking the next step. A new business opportunity, a policy change, a leadership transition.
Tailor-made sessions based on needs of the organization. First session will consist of an interview to understand the issue from a systemic lens. Further sessions depend on needs. Facilitation sessions are held in person. When the work calls for a constellation, online is also possible. Teams leave with more clarity, less friction, and a shared sense of direction.
An online group constellation session for entrepreneurs and small business owners. We work with business questions that keep returning. Stuck revenue, difficult client dynamics, pricing blocks, a direction that isn't clear, or an expansion that won't move forward.
Participants bring their own question. We work with several during the session. While we work with one question, others represent or simply observe. You don't need to be in the center to gain insight.
All participants benefit. Many leave with unexpected clarity about their business, a sense of what's been blocking growth, and a readiness to take the next step.
Sessions are available online or in person, in English, Spanish, or Dutch.
My Philosophy
Everyone carries more than their own story. Family or organizational histories, cultural inheritances, and the weight of what came before, carried forward without always knowing it. These forces can still be present in the system and affecting the dynamics and success of family members, an organization or business, whether or not they get named.
My work is to make these dynamics visible to professionals, management teams, and entrepreneurs. To acknowledge what's there and understand what it's been asking for. Once seen, you choose what to release and what to honor. And something new can emerge. Learn More
What clients experience after…
"Working with Jilles was a turning point. As a physiotherapist, I had been dreaming of creating workshops for mothers and babies, but I felt completely blocked. Through a deep conversation and a constellation, she helped me release emotional weight I didn't know I was carrying. Shortly after, I launched my first workshops — and they were a complete success. Jilles guided me with incredible clarity and sensitivity."
Pilar Donoso
Physiotherapist & Founder "As a landscape ecologist and academic, presenting at a major conference filled me with anxiety. Jilles understood my world — she's been in academia herself. In one powerful session, she created results that surprised me. When the nerves returned during my talk, I used a technique she taught me. From feeling stressed and anxious, it brought me back feeling calm and confident. I ended the presentation well and received very positive feedback. I love what she achieves in her sessions."
Carolina Masoli
Landscape ecologist, Academic & Co-Owner
Reserve Your Constellation
Bring a question or an intention. If you don't have one yet, that's fine. We'll find it together.